miercuri, 28 mai 2014

How to tell if he's a sport fish or a keeper

Are you wondering what your guy that you're dating are looking for ? His actions don't match his words ? You end up mostly of time confused about he's into you or not or you just don't know how to read off his actions ? Well, Steve Harvey in his book ''Think like a man, act like a lady'' is clarifying this crew.

How to tell if he is a sport fish or a keeper:

     1. If his conversation with you is extremely superficial, and never seems to graduate beyond the surface,;he's sport fishing; if he genuinely seems interested in your needs, life, desires, and future, then he's looking for a keeper.

     2. If he laughs off your requirements and standards, then he's sport fishing; if he seems willing to abide by your rules,and actually follows through on them, then he's looking for a keeper.

     3. If he takes your phone number but waits longer than twenty-four hours to call, he's sport fishing; if he calls you right away, he's showing that he's genuinely interested in you, and is most likely looking for a keeper.

     4. If he takes you out on a date and lets you pay, or only kicks in his portion of the bill, he's sport fishing;if he pays the bill, he's showing that he's willing to provide for you, which means he's likely looking for a keeper.

     5. If he tells you he’s going to be somewhere at a certain time, and he consistenly shows up late without so much as the courtesy of a phone call, he's probably sport fishing; if he shows up when he's supposed to, he's looking for a keeper.

     6. If you never meet his friends, family, co-workers, or other people who are important to him, he's sport fishing; if he introduces you to his people, he might be looking for a keeper.

     7. If he keeps offering up excuses for why he can’t meet your friends and familly; he's sport fishing; if he agrees to go to the family barbecue or a social event where he will be ntroduced to family, friends, and co-workers, he might consider you a keeper.

     8. If he cringes at the mere mention of children, he’s sport fishing; if he's willing to meet your kids and shows up with gifts and can relate to them in a way that makes them comfortable with him, then he might consider you cand your kids keepers.

      9. If he does not have himself together financially, emotionally, and spiritually, he may be sport fishing; if he is capable of providing and protecting his potential family the way a real mal should, then he may be searching for a keeper.

     10. If he lobbies for an “open” relationship and says he’s cool with you seeing other people, then he's sport fishing; if he wants your relationship to be exclusive and he agrees to date only you, he considers you a keeper.


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